Effective Communications Month = June: “Starter Tips”
Effective Communications Month
June1-thru-30 (Annually)
Established by Sylvia Henderson
(Refer to: Chases Calendar of Events)
Description: The most important spoke in the wheel of interpersonal relationships is communication. Active listening, verbal variety, paralanguage, body lanague, and written communication skills are the essence of how human relate to each other personally and professionally. This month is dedicated to learning about, improving upon, and committing to communicating more effectively in our lives.
The best way to celebrate communicating effectively is to practice repeatedly. Commit to being a great communicator and change the world for the better…one day at a time.
"Starter Tips" for Being a Better Communicator
The Words You Say
- Keep words positive. For example, "can" instead of "cannot"; "do" instead of "do not"; "like" instead of "dislike".
- Kick the "but…" "Yes, but…" cancels the positive and alerts the listener to be wary of what comes next.
- Use short, exact words. For example, "pen" instead of "writing implement"; "couch" instead of "ottoman"; "truck" instead of "semi tractor-trailer".
- Oust "of the". For example, "open the door" instead of "opening of the door"; "write the report" instead of "writing of the report".
- Encourage rather than discourage. For example, "I believe you can…"
Quotation: "No one would talk much in society if s/he knew how often s/he misunderstands others."
– Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
More tips on "The Words You Say" are in the Pocket Reference Book (PRB) "Tips for Busy People: Proven Techniques You Can Use to Be an Effective Communicator", by Sylvia Henderson. This PRB, or similar, is a free gift upon joining the Subscribe2Succeed community for continual learning connections.